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[quote=Anonymous]My wife was never up for morning sex, but, in the beginning, that was pretty much the only time of day or week or month that was off limits. Over the last 18 years the window for having sex has gotten increasingly restrictive:

-Not if she hasn't showered.
-Not if the kids are awake.
-Not if it's light in the room.
-Not if she's on her period.
-Not if she has to get up in the morning.
-Not if she's fallen asleep on the couch before bedtime (or has otherwise fallen asleep. 
-Not if she's feeling bloated or otherwise has an ailment.
-Not if I've said or done anything to upset her in the past 48 hours.

She pretty regularly gets up early on Saturday for a long run. She pretty regularly doesn't shower on Sunday. 
The kids (ages 8&9) go to bed at about 9:30. She usually falls asleep between 9:30 and 10:30.

So, this leaves me a window of about a maximum of an hour 5 days a week, 3 weeks a month to initiate sex. Of course, with all those rules, you can guess how interested she is in sex generally and how often I'm actually able to take advantage of those windows.

Anyone else find that their spouse has been gradually closing the window of sexual opportunity as their marriage progresses? Any creative rules about when you're not allowed to have sex?[/quote]

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