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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another father here. The popular boys are competing for status with each other, in a similar way that girls are competing for status.

(a) Being with a girl the other guys want provides status.

(b) Getting a girl to do things other guys can't get her to do provides even more status. If she goes out with a boy and he tries to get physical, if she goes along with it he is unlikely to keep it a secret. (She won't believe this because HER boy is different.)

(c) Having evidence of (b) provides even more status. If a boy asks her for pictures/souvenirs/etc., they will NOT be kept private - they are trophies for display. (Evidence shows that she won't believe this, either, because HER boy is different.)
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Anything a father can or should say to 14 yo ds about girls

1. Sexual acts are something that two people do together, willingly, because they want to.
2. Sexual acts are not something that a boy talks an unwilling girl into doing.
3. Sexual acts are not something that you do to increase your status.[/quote]

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