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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH always want to go out with me regardless.[b] He always wants to know when I arrive or when I leave.[/b] If you try to exclude him, he will be upset or [b]make me feel guilty[/b] about leaving him behind. He said I am worry about you. I just want to know you arrive safely. I appreciated his love but I'm tired with this and try and hint that I/people need personal time but he doesn't get this. 
Is this normal to other couples? How do I talk it through without making him upset? [/quote]

Is he really concerned about your safety or is he making sure you're not around so he can cheat? I have an overly active imagination, I know. Chances are, he's just needy which isn't a good sign, either.

If you are going to be late, it's courteous to text or call to let him know. Or if plans change, again, just the courteous thing to do. Does he text YOU when he is out? If not, then his behavior is no longer "sweet and concerned for your safety," it enters the realm of controlling.

Was he like this when you were dating?

You need to figure out what you are comfortable with, example, you will text when you get there but not when you are leaving. Then DO IT. If he calls, let it go to VM or ignore the texts.

Hope it works out.[/quote]

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