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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. Thanks. It's an issue that has been rearing its head since before we were married. I guess I thought things would change. That's my fault. I'll admit to that. He basically wants us to be swingers and for me to be a sex freak (hopefully, you still think I'm sane!). I'm definitely not a prude, but I can't picture being that person for the next 30 years either. I don't know whether to just embrace it and be unhappy but have my kid all the time or to take a gamble at being happy on my own/without him and having my kid 50% of the time. It's also pretty much the only thing we fight about. So I almost know that even if I give in and go with it for a few months/years, it's probably going to eventually taper off to something he isn't pleased with in that department. Planting us right back here..but with an older, more aware child. Unless there is a magic pill out there that will make me change (and enjoy the change!), I'm just not sure I can keep it up. [/quote]

Wow, yeah - that might be a deal breaker for me. I hope he's respectful enough not to put those pressures on you at four months postpartum. I guess it would be one thing if they're urges that he wants to work through to save your marriage - couples therapy, etc. - but totally another if he doesn't and sees it as a lifestyle he wants to pursue. [/quote]

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