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[quote=Anonymous]Since we have our DC1, we often disagree and argue about something, some small, some silly, some big, some important, etc. It stresses me out because I ended up losing the battle 99% of time. My communication and persuasion is weak, I know. So now I am thinking how different we are and wonder why we are even together for 10 years.

He is very detail, organized, planned (everything involves other people needs to plan ahead), logical driven, extremely polite, good communication, dictating, worry about anything, like to stay in town, like to do things together, etc.
I am very opposite. I am an easy going person, I can pull up the last minute get together, vacation no problem, I am careless of most of things that out of my control, emotional driven, not as polite as DH, poorer communication than DH(I have been living here about 12 years) and still working on it but I don't have problem of communicating at work, like travelling, need my personal time, etc.

This drives me nut. Am I being too sensitive? My stress level is at the top of my head but I can't seem to talk to DH because  :shock: I know I won't get my message across, he will just try to fix me. What can I do? To who that has a happy marriage, what can I learn from you?

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