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[quote=Anonymous]So, I did not know where exactly to put this, but I think this is the best bet. My oldest son is 25 years old. We paid for most of his college (he graduated in spring of 2013) in engineering at a decent school. He had an internship and had a decent GPA. But since he graduated he has failed to find a job in his field. He is working at a minimum wage job that would not support him, so we allowed him to move back in around a year ago- with the premise that he was going to be here only until he got himself on his feet. We have a (now) high school senior who is looking at colleges and we don't have the room for him anymore, plus me and DH were looking forward to having an empty nest and relaxing. Anyway, it has now been a year and it does not seem like DS is getting any closer to getting a good job. He is definitely applying, and going to the rare interview, but nothing has yet to come of it. We don't mind the expense of him living with us- both me and DH are in professional fields and we make plenty of money to support him- but I think both of us are ready for him to leave. We love him, but I don't want to spend my retirement supporting a grown adult and it is getting in the way of everyone's life. My question is how long should I wait until kicking him out? I don't want to be mean, but I also think that a year should definitely be enough time for him to have gotten a job. [/quote]
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