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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP ~ Not being resentful is your goal. You need to sit quietly and reflect on this. Don't have all of your salary available - certainly none of it for providing for family if you don't agree with the premise. I won't have in depth discussions about this. Decide what you are going to contribute ~ 125% of what he does, 150%? some figure. Again your goal is to not be resentful with the hope of staying married.

As another post mentioned, no one achieves this success in a vacuum. My guess is you need to continue to appreciate your spouse's role.

Realize both of you need time to adjust to the new reality. Many people aren't displaying their best self during a time of transition, don't judge your husband too harshly. There may now be aspects of your personality which are less attractive[/quote]

I am weary of personality change snl my part as well, I've been trying to be supportive of what he chooses. However now I'm starting to get worried that there hasn't been any progress and wondering if it's intentional. The sacrifice on his part hasn't been a lot in the past, besides having to move. But it will be big from now on, with the hours required for my career it's going to be a bit insane. Which is another source of my paranoia, if we did get divorced, the time commitment I have for work and his being much lesser, seems like a good situation for him to get primary custody and have me support him.

I wish I didn't have these thoughts, but my colleagues are constantly talking about the extremely high divorce rates for our field and it's getting to me.[/quote]

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