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[quote=Anonymous]My DH is having an affair. We both know it to be true but he is in deny,deny,deny, school of thought. I was done and ready to file for a divorce. He says he doesnt want a divorce. Can't live with out me and the kids together. On and on. I on the other hand, will never trust him again. We are still having sex that is actually the best for me that we have ever had( i guess, thanks OW).
I dont want to be with him, i want him to leave, go where he is happy and free.
I found out about a month ago, and have been going through the whole gamut of emotions. BUT if we get divorced, his quality of living goes up, while mine and the kids goes down. I work 2 jobs, but he makes 6x more than I do. I dont want to live in a shitty apartment, while he has a townhouse and a beach house. 
I put my blood sweat and tears into this marriage for what? For him to pay me back with an affair? We raised 2 awesome kids that will be going to college in the next year or so..
He is totally in the midst of a mid life crisis, with a new position in a metropolitan area that has his eyes popping out of his head. He is like a kid in a candy store with all the women. I cant even blame them. He is a good looking nice guy, who suddenly thinks he deserves better.

Maybe in the future if he meets yet another younger woman he may change his mind and want a divorce. But for now, should I just go along and stay so we dont have to suffer? Me and the kids I mean[/quote]

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