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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Typical story.  Married 10 years.  Kids between 4-7 years old.  Have tried everything to get wife in mood.  She is happy 1-2 month.  For the record, we haven't tried counselling, my wife doesn't see the need for it, she is happy with status quo, and truthfully I have no desire to make her have sex with me just to prevent a divorce.

I have found another women in a similar bind as me.  I think we have total discretion.  What I am trying to determine is if it is better to just divorce or to go for the affair and do my best to be at home being a good father and husband (perhaps better husband since I won't be sexually frustrated).

Understand some people are against affairs no matter what, but for those who have had them, was there a happy outcome that makes it worth it?  Or should I just bite the bullet and get divorced.  [/quote]

HAHA, I bet your wife would post on the other thread about "would you marry again if it were not for kids" that her marriage is great and she would marry you again, even without kids...thinking everything is awesome. Some people are A-OK and think it is normal to have a plutonic relationship with their spouse.

Good luck. You might get busted and it would be miserable for you.  just don't hook up with a bunny boiler.[/quote]

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