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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do your wife a favor... get a divorce and then you can date, have sex with and do what ever you like.  If you cheated on me, regardless of the reason, you'd find your stuff packed on the porch and served with divorce papers.  No counseling, no looking back.  Once you leave the marriage, our marriage is over.  No forgiveness here.  If you have an affair, you are not being a "good" husband or father.  You are the scum of the earth.  Just be prepared for the outcome being huge attorney bills, lots of child support, seeing your kids every other weekend and your marriage over with a very bitter ex-wife.[/quote]

OP here, I understand this sentiment.  I probably would have written the same thing before marriage.  It just seems brutally unfair that my kids have to go without mom and dad in the home because mom and dad can't sync sexually.  Is the choice really between being sexually miserable vs. blowing up the family home?  [/quote]

You need to fix the problem. Cheating does not fix the problem. It will hurt your wife and children. They will find out. Others will not keep your secret.

What is the problem? Low sex drive or maybe you do not satisfy her?
I enjoy sex with DH and we do it about one a week. It can be more or less depending on if our kids interfere with our plans. You need to talk to her and figure out what the problem is.

Women need to be in the mood for sex. Men can't understand this because they are ready to have sex if they are sad or angry. A man only needs to be awake. A woman needs to be relaxed and in the mood. You both have to work on getting her in the mood. And you need to give her orgasms otherwise she will not want to have sex with you.[/quote]

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