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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do your wife a favor... get a divorce and then you can date, have sex with and do what ever you like.  If you cheated on me, regardless of the reason, you'd find your stuff packed on the porch and served with divorce papers.  No counseling, no looking back.  Once you leave the marriage, our marriage is over.  No forgiveness here.  If you have an affair, you are not being a "good" husband or father.  You are the scum of the earth.  Just be prepared for the outcome being huge attorney bills, lots of child support, seeing your kids every other weekend and your marriage over with a very bitter ex-wife.[/quote]

You are also going to affect your children. My cousins found out their father cheated on their mother. He is dead so they can't resolve issues with him. They have MAJOR trust issues.

Do not be selfish and ruin your children's life. Divorce is a much better option than cheating.

If you are a good DH, you will put the romance back in your life. Talk to your wife.

Of course being with someone new is exciting. That will wear off in time and you will be alone.

Cheating is divorce territory for me. If we have problems in our marriage, I would expect my DH to be an adult and talk to me about it, not just sleep around like an immature teenager.

You also need to think about putting your wife at risk for STDs. And what happens if you get the OW pregnant. Cheaters think they are slick, but others know and WILL gossip about it.[/quote]

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