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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in the exact same situation, having the biggest crush in another married man like I was a teenager. Did he show interest back at you? In my case, the married man was flirting with me like crazy (which also reminded me of the teenage days) and we met up for lunches, our conversation was basically like dates (nothing physical happened though). I fell for him, I thought I was deeply in love with him and I thought I just had to have him. At that point I was ignoring all thoughts of guilt or karma or whatever rational stuff and all I can think of was him.

But then - I was on a business trip for 1.5 weeks and when I came back, he seem to have "forgotten" me, calmed down a lot, friendly but no flirting. And this really turned me off and now I felt better. It is still painful, I still think about him a lot, but I didnt get the compulsive feeling of wanting an affair. Now I know if we can't even survive 1.5 week of not seeing each other, those feelings are not real.

I'm also lucky in a sense that he's leaving the job for good so I won't be seeing him everyday soon.

What I can say is if there's no way to limit the exposure due to work, it's really hard to squash that feeling all of a sudden. But bottom line is, you just have to realize none of this is real and it will pass one day (perhaps go on leave or something). That though depends on whether your feelings are reciprocated. But I'm guessing if I can survive in my heavy flirting case, you can too. Give it some time! [/quote]

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