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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you're not even that religious, but your main concern for your -year-old is that she stay pure until marriage? what horrible, dark corner did you crawl out of?[/quote]
Not OP, but seriously ... it's such a horrible thing for a person remain a Virgin until marriage???
Gimme a break[/quote]

Not pp, but I do think it's such a horrible thing to think having sex before marriage makes someone less pure, or impure, or has any effect whatsoever on their moral character. What a weird concept, and what a weird thing to place any significant value on. [/quote]

Sex really isn't a weird thing to place value on at all. [b]It is a form of intimacy and people have different values about when that level of intimacy is appropriate. there is an incredible range of the value people place on sex. [/b]Some place no value and have sex at any age, with anyone, at any time for any reason. Others value waiting until they are older and able to make sense of the responsibilities that come with it. Others only value sex in a committed relationship, others value sex as something shared between a married couple. You obviously are at a different spot on the spectrum than OP - and probably also on a different spot than the 12 yr old having numerous one night stands or having group sex or the woman having sex with 3 guys while married. You have your own definition of sexual morality - accept that your definition doesn't apply to everyone.[/quote]

I 100000% agree with this, which is precisely why I think it's weird to feel like you need to have control over what your child's future sex life may or may not be. Teach them to respect themselves. Teach them to be safe. Teach them to be responsible. Teach them to surround themselves with other people who respect them.  Teach them to make their own choices, whatever they may be so long as they do the aforementioned things. But don't teach them that they're going to be less pure or less worthy just because they have sex. [/quote]

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