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[quote=Anonymous]Have you ever talked to DH about your concerns? Do it when you're not discussing plans to visit ILs. Just say "DH, I feel like every time we stay with your parents you revert back to a high-schooler." Then explain specifically what the behaviors were, using specific examples, and tell him how you felt in each instance. Also be aware of how you act when you stay at your parents' house, and acknowledge areas where you've shown poor behavior and that you intend not to do it again. Above all, stay calm and don't let things escalate. You're having the discussion to bring this problem to his attention and also how to resolve the issue. If having certain signals or phrases to do or say when he's acting poorly helps, do it. If staying in a hotel helps, do it. Just make sure you follow through. Good luck. [/quote]
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