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[quote=Anonymous]I have been questioning whether my husband is having an affair or is just looking to have one.
He has been pushing me away, i would say actively for the last 8 months. What i mean by this is- he has made NASTY comments about my appearance, he has been going out on his way home from work. A few times alone with another woman. He goes out frequently to dinner(alone?) and will say he had a late lunch. 
All this time i have been Leery of his relationship w a coworker. We have been having a horrible time especially this last month. 
He has now started deleting all his texts, messages , everything. 
Our sex life is the only thing that has not been suffering because he has the drive of a 20 year old. Meaning- he always wants to do it and hes pretty quick about it. 
Well, i do wish I could turn back and not see this but I can't. He has several emails between him and his boss( female) that are very flirtatious. I was kind of ok with that until I saw one where he mistakenly called me his wide instead of his wife. She brought it to his attention, and then they discussed at length how she had many ways to hold this against him with him laughing and going on about it. WHY???
I am so devestated. And i get it, I shouldn't have looked at his email. But I am not over weight, and this is so hurtful to me that my husband took part in this? She definitely instigated it but wow, did he have to respond w such gusto?
DH and DW please respond and help me sort this out. Is he really not that into me? We have been married for 25 years.[/quote]

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