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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, boy.  Where to begin.

To make a long story short, my pap last year came back CIS.  After they picked me up off the floor and we did some more tests, the final diagnosis ended up being CIN 2 but I had a LEEP anyway.  Six months later, it was CIN 3.  Another LEEP.  Things look ok for now but the gynecologic oncologist brought in because it seemed so agressive is concerned about the apparent persistent HPV.  Another LEEP is probably in my future He highly suggests I not have unprotected sex and highly suggests I not get pregnant, both because of the multiple LEEPs and immune suppression pregnancy causes.

You're probably wondering what this has to do with my marriage.  Well, DH was my first.  I waited.  He didn't.  I feel dirty and used and like I have a scarlet A printed on me.  DH sees it as no big deal and something completely treatable and that I should just live with.  You know, paps every six months more tissue burned off my cervix that kind of no big deal.  He's now pressing for a baby.  I wanted babies, lots of them and that's looking more and more unlikely now.  I'm devastated.

We've tried counseling but he's stopped going.  I'm lost.  Any advice?[/quote]

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