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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I chose to take The Pill; he did not suggest it and does not encourage nor assume that I should continue.

I too had two C-sections. This doesn't make me any less insensitive to my husband'a personal business with his body. I know it's popular and expected for women to bemoan how annoying or lazy their husbands are, or other negatives, but I don't have that situation. We love and respect each other, and I don't assume any procedure would be "nothing, compared to" something I'd gone through.[/quote]

well, why don't you just discuss it with him, then?  I stopped the pill before having kids and never went back on. Neither of us wanted condoms. I had a diaphragm failure, so that was out. He decided, on his own steam, that the best, easiest solution was that he get a vasectomy. He actually said that I had borne all the responsibility for birth control and then pregnancy, etc, and it was his turn. I never brought it up--he did. While I never assumed the procedure would be "nothing," he also never assumed that taking the pill, or getting an IUD would be "nothing" either. [/quote]

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