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[quote=Anonymous]If you don't actually catch your husband red-handed, or he doesn't confess, here are some signs:

1. He's unavailable- not just when he sees "her" but in general. Can't talk- in a meeting, busy with work, etc.  
2. He doesn't call you during the day "just because" and is slow to return your calls
3. He becomes very critical- everything about you suddenly "bugs" him
4. Sex goes away and there is no romance
5. He picks fights and arguments
6. Becomes secretive and doesn't like to be questioned

A lot of this behavior stems from guilt and resentment (the cheater will actually resent the spouse because the feel guilty amd look for ways to rationale their behavior). Maybe women behave the same way- I've only experienced this issue with men so can only speak to that scenario.

I've had a long term boyfriend and a husband (not the same person) cheat. Signs were the same both times- I missed it the second because I thought "no way."  Can't advise what to do if it actually happens- I think people have affairs for many reasons and most people are capable of it under the right circumstances. [/quote]

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