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[quote=Anonymous]I wish it was 2 to 3 days. My in-laws stay for a month, but they come from overseas, and not every year, so I usually give in. But, recently, I have told DH that I can't take a month anymore....way too stressful. At most 2 weeks. I wouldn't want any house guest, including parents, for one month. DH agreed - 2 weeks. But it took me a good 5 yrs to work up the courage to tell this to DH. I felt like I should let it go because they are so old and this could be their last visit. Consider yourself lucky. As for them booking the tickets and such before discussing it with you.. I guess it depends on what kind of relationship they have with you or your DH. If they felt that they were welcome whenever for how ever long, then that's probably why they didn't discuss it with you. But it is pretty rude IMO. What if you had plans to go out of town? [/quote]
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