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[quote=Anonymous]First, I think this really in your control. You can use some basic cognitive behavioral therapy, whether with a therapist or on your own, to stop yourself whenever you start thinking about him. Second, there's probably a 95% chance that he's wrong for you and that you're just focusing on fantasy rather than reality. It took me at least 5 years to get over my first love, and even after than (and after I realized he would have been all wrong fro me), I still would think about him. I still sometimes think about him now, but in a curious way, not in a want to be with him way. Maturing and recognizing his flaws helped me get over him.[/quote]
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