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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My SIL (so DH brother's wife) was left out of my pics and I didn't notice until we actually saw them. [b]They were engaged at the time[/b] so she wasn't some fly by night date. I still want to photoshop her in! Kidding, but only sort of. The group pics were a flurry of people in and out because we have big families so I didn't notice with DH family that she wasn't on the end before they rushed in my sister and mom and then next group, etc. Come to find out she was at the bar already! (My ceremony and everything was all in one place, less formal) You can usually tell if there is malice or ill intent with these things. I could see that being the case with some relationships and just honest mistakes with others.[/quote] I would have had a photo with her and without her, just in case it didn't work out. Doesn't really matter though, because only the bride and bride's mother are going to look at the photos. I wouldn't sweat it. My cousin had his fiance in a lot of family photos (not wedding, but special milestone bday.) They broke up shortly afterward. So it's kind of awkward because she is in a LOT of the photos, a couple of them are framed and hanging up because it was a "group" photo. Can you imagine if he ever gets married how awkward that will be for his wife? (FWIW, I don't think ex spouses should necessarily be removed but ex boy/girlfriends shouldn't be on display.) After her divorce, my aunt destroyed all photos of her ex, my cousin's father. He never saw a photo of his father until he was a teen. (Father gave up custody so they could leave the country and come to the USA.) [/quote]
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