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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand your hurt, OP, but are you really surprised?  Sounds like she's been giving you the message that she wanted distance for some time now.  If it were happening to me, I would have expected to not be invited to the bachelorette party.

But I know what it's like to have someone you care about disappear on you like that.  It's painful.  Sorry you're going through this.  But it looks like you either ask her what's going on or you just accept that you'll never get an explanation, grieve, and let the relationship go.[/quote]

To be honest I didn't quite recognize the signs at first- she's always had a tendency to go MIA when dating someone, so it didn't strike me as very different than in the past. Most of our communications are text/email/Facebook anyway.  My sis, since she lives in the same town and previously saw her more often in person, was pissed and stopped making an effort.  In a way she wasn't surprised.  But I was. Funny because last summer when we were talking in person she was lamenting that she didn't know what her bridesmaids would be able to do for a party because they live out of town.  I offered assistance if needed and she was like oh thank you so much- ha!

Anyway, I'm not asking her what's up before the wedding- little desire on my front to contribute to the drama at the moment.  But maybe I will eventually.  Thanks for listening- I really just needed to vent. ;)[/quote]

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