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[quote=Anonymous]Oh boy.  Red flag, no make that neon red blinking signs saying run from this relationship.  If this is a true post, here are the big things that caught my attention

1.  You said he points the blame at everyone else. You don't want to be in a relationship with a person that won't take responsibility for his/her actions.  My kids are in elementary school and we've had this discussion.  I've seen what happens when someone always says it's the other person's fault and never ever looks at their own actions ...yes goes thru a lot of jobs, yes has a lot of volatile relationships 
2. Umm, why are you more invested in a job for him than he is?   With my own kids I will guide but I won't do the work for them.  He is a grown man and you are doing all the legwork. If he is going to make a favorable impressions he is going to need to show employers that he is motivated.
3. Lack of thoughtfulness.  He didn't offer to help pay for the food, it doesn't seem like he tried to come up with a low cost outing to show how much he appreciated your thoughtfulness.  Oh and he is going out with other woman.  
4. Remember while people can change, you can't change people.  Repeat as often as you need.  I used to  get wound up until I realized, no I can't change people, only my reaction/boundaries to their foolishness. 
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