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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, good, you're in therapy. So, is this therapist any good at helping you set boundaries? It's way past time that you didn't call so much, and when she starts nagging say, "Mom, I don't have time to listen to you nag at me right now, have a great day!" and hang up the phone and don't pick it up again for a few days. Keep hanging up if she starts in on you (Pretend you're your husband...if he can't stand you being treated like that, how can you?). Seriously, let her flip out, hold your ground, and show her that you mean it. She'll either adjust or she won't, and her behavior will be bad enough that you'll realize how bad she is and drop her more drastically. It sounds terrible, but you need to reclaim your own mental health.[/quote]
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