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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with setting boundaries. I have similar issues except that she doesn't call me and I have to call her. Honestly, I went to therapy and spent 2 years figuring out that it's not about me and I need to stop over sharing and looking for approval. She loves me in a super insence way and tries to control/protect me (and I'm over 30). Laying it all out for the therapist made it clear how unreasonable it all was. I got some techniques to deal with it. You have to come to terms that she will not change (not dramatically) so you just have to deal with how you react and your response and what you share. Good luck. It's way better for me but there are still comments that get to me, I just try really really hard not to dwell on it. [/quote]
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