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[quote=Anonymous]OP, what you are feeling toward your friend is completely normal + 100% understandable. Do not be so harsh on yourself, anyone would lose respect for someone who was putting up w/so much abuse for such an extended period  of time.

As much as you love and care for your friend, it must be tough to listen to her defend this schmuck while you know what a bastard he is.

You do not have to tell her you are losing respect for her directly, but what you CAN let her know is that you honestly   do not support her staying in this abusive relationship. She is an adult and she makes her own choices and she has chosen to stay w/this person. However, you are also an adult and you have chosen not to like this guy and because of that, you no longer want to hear anything positive regarding him any more.

Let her know it would be best for both of you if you keep any topic related to him minimal. Hopefully she will understand and you won't have to deal w/their relationship issues/drama anymore.

Hopefully the  day will come where she will see the light and realize you were right all along....[/quote]

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