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DH and I worked it out (without counseling) and I have not and do not plan on ever cheating again. I understand now that it was an incredibly hurtful and immature way of fighting certain difficult events that happened at that time in my life.

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In all seriousness... You didn't understand that at the time? I've always been under the impression cheaters are fully aware what they're doing is hurtful Nd basically avoidance but just didn't care at the time or thought they wouldn't get caught. [/quote]

I'm PP you responded to. 
I have no excuse.
I was 25, had just had a special needs baby that needed massive amounts of therapies, my boss wanted me to work every day (including weekends) until 10pm, and my husband was NOT SUPPORTIVE. He refused to seek help for the baby, refused to go to counseling, and hardly lifted a finger in the house.
I clung to the one person who offered emotional support and who listened. It spiraled down from there, and I was within a hair's breadth of divorcing.
Again, these are not excuses. However, my husband did recognize that he had a role to play there. Sometimes there are single-handed cheaters. Other times, it's a two-way street.

We are doing much better because we both learned something.

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