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Reply to "Losing respect for friend because of her relationship and I feel like a jerk"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd stop letting her talk to you about him. It's like a release valve - she feels better, you feel worse, she keeps going on. She needs therapy to understand why this is okay with her. And you're not (I assume) a therapist. [/quote] +2 Tell her that you will be her friend but you cannot support this relationship. You will no longer listen to her talk about him. You support her talking with a therapist about why is settling for such poor treatment. If she starts talking about him, say "I'm leaving" or "I need to hang up now." Then do it.[/quote]
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