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[quote=Anonymous]My friend has been dating her boyfriend for 4 years and he's cheated on her almost the whole time with various women.  Then he stopped having sex with her because she gained 15 pounds and became a size 6.  He made sure she knew he was cheating on her because he wasn't attracted to her.  He also has every excuse in the book for why he isn't proposing yet.  Anyways, I've tried to help her through all of this even though he's an asshole.  I've come to accept that she's not going to dump him.  Anyways, she confided in me recently that he has cheated again and has given her a fairly serious STD.  I feel like a jerk but she is still staying with him and I feel myself just losing respect for her.  I just can't understand why she keeps putting up with this.  She desperately wants to marry him and have kids and she thinks he'll stop then.  He won't and I can't even imagine how much he's going to cheat on her/be mean to her when she gains weight if she gets pregnant.

I know I'm an asshole for losing respect for her, but I really need advice on how to get over it and what to do.  Just so frustrated with her at the moment. [/quote]

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