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[quote=Anonymous]My friend found out from her son that he knew for year before she knew. The classy affair couple would take him to dinner with them. Nice!

Anyway... the way she found out is he screamed it at the top of his lung... I HAVE KNOW HER FOR YEARS... YEARS.... YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So it seems like he sort of needed to get this off his chest. I was there. It was literally the most heart wrenching think I have seen... and I have seen a lot.

WHO puts a secret like that on the shoulders of a child. Filth... Filthy ruthless ugly people.....

So I would talk to a counselor about it... but after my friend son blew ... they sad down and my friend basically said (with the help of a therapist)...

I am sorry that adults put you in that situation. You do not have to protect me from anything, I am an adult and I am strong and I can handle this. I am going to be fine and I am going to live an amazing life, even though right now I am sad. Being sad is a normal feeling during change and loss of a marriage. I will never stand between you and your father. I want you to love your father and have a wonderful father/son relationship. In the future, if any adult asks you to keep a secret and you don't want to you don't have to. Adults should never ask a child to keep a secret. For now on you can tell (name of therapist) or Aunt Betty (the child's safe person) if there is something you need to tell an adult but are afraid to tell your mom and dad. I love you... We will be fine. HUGS!

Don't ask your daughter anything. Get a therapist. You can say, you can tell me anything you want to tell me, I already know. But don't ask specifics.

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