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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's incredible, but true. Sadly, this is where I find myself after 15+ years of marriage. [b]There are kids involved and I still love him, so I don't want a divorce[/b]. He says that if he enjoys sleeping with women other than me, why should that be morally condemnable? We've had a normal, average marriage so far, at least from my point of view. I told him that I need trust and emotional intimacy, and I can't have that if I know or even if I just suspect that he is sleeping with other women. This didn't seem to register, though. I don't know what to do. [/quote]

First, has he really cheated or is this just talk?

Second, you still love him. Why? Is it because you depend on him materially or emotionally? Is it because you think his daily actions as husband and father are completely separate from his philosophy on adultery?

Third, you believe it's best for the children to stay in this situation. Why? Do you think this moral equivocacy will rub off on them? Do you think your husband's disrespect for you is healthy for your children to witness?

I would recommend therapy for you first, by yourself. You don't sound as if you're thinking straight. 
Then you can tackle your husband.

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