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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you know ex wants a life with you?

Flirting is one thing. It's an ego boost to both.

You might ditch DH and this guy wants nothing long term.[/quote]

Have to agree with this. He is probably enjoying the danger of flirting with someone who is married and probably feeding his own ego...far from saying he wants you to end your  marriage and marry him. Do you know for sure this feeling is mutual? If you do not love your husband, and it sounds like you really don't, you are not being fair to him, your kids or yourself to stay married BUT if you end your marriage be sure you are doing it for the right reasons.

My own sister went through something very similar. Was engaged they broke up because he is was medical school and just didn't have time/room in his life for a fiance and planning a wedding. She was heartbroken but moved on, and married a great guy 4 years later. What i never knew until 2010 was that she never got over her ex. I also didn't' know that they were still communicating. She finally broke down and told me, and that she really cared for her H but wasn't in love with them. They had a D. I talked her into being honest and eventually she told her husband. She did reunite with her ex and they married in 2012. It did not happen without a lot of hurt and anger for many people involved. So it might sound like a fairytale but I assure you it was difficult even for her to break up her marriage. She is very happy now and in her case it worked out but I think its the exception more than the rule. Remember you never know what you have until its gone. Just be wise and good luck.[/quote]

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