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[quote=Anonymous]Have you ever acted on them, like breaking up/divorcing and dating the object of the infatuation?

The cliff notes of what I'm going through:
- female, early thirties, married to good, handsome, loving man who has been a good husband to me. I've been a loving, loyal wife. Married 2 years, were dating for 2 years before that, so altogether 4 years with DH.
- Over a decade ago when I was in college, I became close friends with a handsome, exciting, genius and we started dating a month before we graduated college. He moved to Florida for work 4 months later and we broke up because we decided long distance wouldn't work. Still friends to this day.
- Still have feelings for Ex. He's smarter than DH, he was better in bed than DH is (I feel bad for saying that :( ), and since he and I were in the same major in college (Medieval and Ren Studies), we have a LOT of the same interests. Ex still flirts with me whenever we meet up. DH has let himself go a little, but Ex looks hotter than ever.
- I love my DH but I can't help but feel that I missed the boat on the true romance of my life.

Has anyone else experienced things like this? WWYD? Is it normal to have deep and lasting infatuations with close friends for 10 years while being married to and in love with someone else? Is this common and a mistake? [/quote]

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