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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with PPs. It sounds like your dh is unhappy and taking it out on you. He may be a little jealous that he's discontent and you're not, but in his heart of hearts he may know that your current situation is what you two agreed on and what works for him. Talk to him about his unhappiness and how it is affecting the tenor of your relationship, not about whether he wants you to work. I would express your concern about him but in a firm way that encourages him to own his emotional health. He may need to get a therapist or at least do some serious soul searching. As a secondary matter, you may want to ask yourself if you want to try to get a job, and if so then start making moves to do that. But it should be because you want to, not because you are reacting to his moods. If he's unhappy in his work he will still be unhappy if you are working too, (perhaps more so because then he would have to step up more at home to cover the things that you're handling now.)[/quote]
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