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[quote=Anonymous]Every time my mother visits and my one year old DS cries over something, my mom acts like she's never seen a baby cry before and just can't stand to see DS upset. I get it, she's grandma and it breaks her heart to see her grandson cry over something-- teething, having a toy taken away, being tired, having a little tantrum over something-- but last time she came to visit it was getting pretty irritating. She also tries to somehow make it about a fault in my parenting, such as it's too cold for him, I need to get him to nap more, I need to let him keep a toy in his hand, I need to do this or that instead. Then she sweeps in and picks him up as if she's some sort of rescuer. When I try to call her out on it, she suddenly showers me with praise about what a wonderful parent I am and she just feels bad for poor little grandchild. I feel like it's a game. Funny thing is, she was a teacher, had a few kids herself and you'd think she's understand that it's not a national tragedy and that yes, babies/toddlers cry every day over something. Anyone else been through this dynamic?[/quote]
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