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[quote=Anonymous] My brother got divorced about 4 years ago. It was a bad marriage with an impossible wife. We were all relieved when after 22 years they finally agreed it was not working (mutual decision). He is successful and accomplished, nice looking and rich. In other words a great catch.
He has started dating in the last few years. Up until last year no one seriously. Then he tells me he met someone he is crazy about but who is considerable younger (eye roll). He is in his 40's she is 27. She lives about 45 min away and they met professionally. Finally at a family function I got to meet her. I immediately sized her up as a controlling, and somewhat manipulative woman. She also appears to be full of herself, she is tall and attractive but kind of flaunts herself, she comes across overly confident. She was engaged until a few years ago and for whatever reason it didn't work out.  She has him wrapped around her finger and he is all gaga over her. I just got a vibe, you know when that happens? My family is really proper so no one said a word but my mom finally told me she got the same impression.

Well.....he called me 3 days ago to announce she is moving in! I was shell shocked. I cannot believe it. His youngest is leaving for college in Aug. so I guess he feels that it's OK. I am sad over it as I just dont' like her and think she is out for his money. The question is do I speak my mind? Do i tell him what I have observed? She is so vastly different from his previous wife. The only good thing here is that she is really into fitness so has whipped him into running and exercising and taking really good care of his body. Besides that though I don't see this going anywhere, but obviously my brother feels differently. What to do?[/quote]

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