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[quote=Anonymous]Recently, my mil came into town for a month long visit. Long story short, she always disrespects me, causes drama in our household and is just unbearable. Well, most recently, while my dh and I were at work, she stopped at our house and picked our 13 year old daughter up and kept her out all day and evening. I was upset over this cause she didnt previously discuss with me or dh about doing this. In the interim, I told both my daughter and mil that they need to respect both me and dh and ask permission and let's us know what thier plans are instead of just doing as they please without informing us. This caused a huge argument between me, mil, and dh. The next day dh and I were arguing via text while at work. I was morse so arguing because I felt dh didn't stick up for me again against mil. Anyhow when I got home that day from work, I found out my mil stopped at the house went through dh's phone, read all the texts between me and dh, got totally mad and left taking his phone with her. She then went and shared mine and DH conversations with other family.Mind you me and dh are almost 40 and have been married almost 14 years now. Dh wasn't even a bit upset that his mom took phone, read our conversations, etc. Later that evening, dh went to see his mom and get his phone back. His mom and step father then told him that I'm an awful person, not welcomed at their house and went on to tell him how he should leave me! Ugh!! This not only outrages me but the entire situation makes me sick in so many ways. I'm so Tirerd of his mom butting in, disrespecting me etc. Now the first time I speak up in 14 years to mil, this is the wrath I deal with. Mil in town still and will be for another three weeks...... What to do?[/quote]

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