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[quote=Anonymous]Lots of variables here, but the friends aren't necessarily a dealbreaker - although they could be. Here are some factors to consider: - Do you have deeply held political beliefs that these friends contradict - e.g., like mysoginist or homophobic statements, or drinking a lot if you have alcoholics in your family? If so, it may indicate an incompatibility between you and the BF if he can't respect your need not to be around people who make those sorts of statements unchallenged or need to be constantly drunk. - What role do these friendships play? Are they a really important part of the BF's life, or just a way to pass the time? - Does the BF take part in their distasteful activities? If so, see above - is this a big problem for you, and how important are these activities/comments/jokes to your BF? - How frequently are you going to need to deal with this behavior? If it's once a week, can you handle that? [/quote]
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