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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Counseling. It is not fair for him to coerce more sex via threats.[/quote]

And it's not fair for OP to force him to put up with being unsatisfied.  Compromise people, compromise. [/quote]

I agree. But, he if he said he would stray, that's kind of a dick move. He should have said he wanted an open marriage or a divorce. Not "I'm going to cheat."

Frankly, he should have discussed their sex life and what needs to change and how they can have a better marriage. If my DH said that, I would suspect him of cheating and divorce him. Once the trust is gone, it's gone.

That being said, we have sex at least once a week. We have been married 9 years and he has a high sex drive. He masturbates daily. I have a decent sex drive. I could go every day if the kids didn't prevent us.

Why the hell didn't you two discuss this sex drive issue or desire BEFORE you got married? We discussed everything. I know my DH wants sex and I want it too. We just have different drives, but we compromise and do what we both enjoy. By the way, do you enjoy sex with your DH? If you're not getting an orgasm at least 95% of the time, something is wrong. (I figure that approximately 5% of the time I am unable to for whatever reason--one of my meds used to prevent me from having one.)[/quote]

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