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[quote=Anonymous]Hope I can explain this where it won't sound too confusing. Will do my best, would really love your take on this.

Went on a short trip (5 days) with my sister in law. She said she was on a strict hotel budget so I said I would book the hotels and that she could contribute what she felt was fair. (she said 500 was her total hotel budget) the hotels came to about 2000.00 and I was OK with that. Second hotel we had an issue and they comped us so instead of it being 2000 it came out in total to about 1400. So then at end of trip she wrote me a check for 300. Saying she had planned on about 135 a night as her budget and since we got one night free and cut our trip one night short she came up with just paying 300 vs. 500. To me, if her budget was 500 then thats what she should contribute she is still making out like a bandit since I paid over 1400. She is standing firm, and I am really not sure about who is right and who is wrong. I am a reasonable and generous person but somehow this doesn't feel right and i feel like shes being cheap. She is by no means on poverty row, they own two homes have 3 cars, upper middle class she spends 100 on her 12 year daughters outfits like shes buying bubble gum.

If most of you think I need to let it go and that she is right I am willing to accept it and move along. Really curious to hear what you think. Thank you.[/quote]

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