Reply to Separation: Living together for a month before separation

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Separation: Living together for a month before separation"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]My husband and I are separating- he's moving out on August 1st.  If you've gone through this do you have any tips about how to live together somewhat peacefully after you've asked for separation, but before your spouse actually moved out? I try VERY hard not to get into arguments with him, but it's very challenging because he gets really mad when I don't engage. I gave him a month because I thought it might make the separation/divorce process go more smoothly. Now I'm kind of regretting that decision.

I've asked him to move out because he's verbally abusive (me and DS) and several times a month is physically abusive (DS only; not spanking, no bruises, CPS won't take case). We have two kids (7 and 3). He's angry and acts like it's all my fault. I tried for almost 4 years to get him help (marriage counseling, individual therapy, medication for BPD, parenting classes, new less stressful job for him, etc) and just can't deal anymore.

Looking for helpful, constructive ideas.  I feel very sad about the situation. Thanks  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics