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[quote=Anonymous]SIL is getting married next year (Spring) and just asked if DD (who will by 9 months old) will be a flower girl. Her fiance also asked DH to be a groomsman. Some background: SIL and I do not get a long. She has resented me for years for "stealing her brother away from the family". When we got married 5 years ago, I asked her to be a bridesmaid and she agreed, only to back out 3 months before the wedding. I am inclined to say no to the flower girl request since a 9 month old is obviously not walking herself down the aisle. I told DH it's up to him if he wants to be a groomsman-- we've met SIL's fiance all of 3 times in the year they've been together. Anyways, we're going to see DH's family this weekend for the holiday and I am pretty sure that SIL will be asking again. How do I say no without making her hate me even more? I just don't want my baby paraded down the aisle and find it rather silly to have a baby be a flower girl.[/quote]
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