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[quote=Anonymous]I was your daughter and it sucked! I absolutely hated being taken away from my friends to spend time with him . My parents forced me to go and I resented both if them for it. I was miserable at my dads. As a miserable sullen teenager I made everyone in the house miserable as well. My DH does it differently. His kids live 2 hrs from us. If they have plans with friends, he makes sure they get to go even if that means doing the drive multiple times over the weekend or getting a hotel room for the weekend. This was not the case when they were little but as they've grown into teens he recognizes that their life is in the city they live in with their mother. It sucks but the adults are the one that made this child and made the decision to divorce. Don't ask the child to keep being miserable. The adults are the ones that need to make the sacrifices. If that means exDH flies in for long weekends or your DD flies over for a few long weekends then so be it.[/quote]
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