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[quote=Anonymous]OMG, he is so trying to screw you.

Get a lawyer pronto. At the very least you need to see his credit report and yours to identify all the debt. You are due half of his retirement income; he was able to work b/c you took care of the household and kids for him. Period.

And playing sports till 8-9, from what you describe you are dealing with narcissist and you seem to be taking abuse too easily. I would actually recommend seeing a therapist on your own to work on valuing yourself and the life that you want to get for your kids.

AND KEEP THE HOUSE BUT LET HIM PAY FOR IT. The alimony and child support should likely be able to provide enough for you and the kids to live there if he was planning to carry it on his own.  You could always rent out a room to a female grad student or something, which is far from the worst thing you could find in some random apartment.  If you keep the house, kick him of the deed (but you can probably keep him on the mortgage if he agrees to that).

But you need a lawyer. Stat.[/quote]

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