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[quote=Anonymous] This situation shows that his rejection has hurt every member of his family, even you, whom he did no reject outright, because you live in fear that he might... My husband also sees things very much in black and white. Sometimes we have giant quarrels about what I perceive to be his extreme view of the world. He has Asperger's tendencies, and Asperger's syndrome run in his family. So the things that do not affect our life together, I generally let go, and focus on the children, our careers and parenting strategies. We still fight about certain things. What helps is that I stay very cool and analytical, and present arguments like a lawyer. That way he can focus on the content of my argument instead of on our emotions. Don't know if that helps. Last point: accept that he won't change, and might indeed get worse as he ages! Just do the best you can, and if he rejects you, so be it. [/quote]
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