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[quote=Anonymous]I also find this idea troubling, particularly in your vulnerable state. A better suggestion, in my opinion, is for YOU to decide what they should have done differently and come to terms with the fact that this didnt happen.

When you yourself become a parent (you did not mention you are, so I believe you must not be) then you can revisit this idea of failings. Because you will have something to compare it to.

Im just very uncomfortable with this suggestion and I think your therapist is a bit odd for even suggesting it, if she is aware how terrified you are. Is she??

You need to come to terms with your anger somehow without inviting a can of worms and burdening others with this baggage, even if they could be thought of as "deserving" it. Because its not about that. Its about what YOU need to move forward, and I just strongly suspect this is NOT IT.

You cant make a person take a personal inventory on your timeline. That is what this is. Im getting more and more uncomfortable just thinking about it. Yikes.

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