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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I agree. My ex also has mental illness. His family helped him conceal it until after we were married. They seem helpless to get him to commit to any consistent therapeutic regime. I'm sure that there are some fantastic parents who have mental illness. My ex was not one. He feels that he was victimized by me during the marriage (because I wasn't catering to him), victimized by the divorce (because I filed for a restraining order while he was having a mental health crisis), and victimized still (because he pays CS). If he only made ME unhappy, I might have toughed it out in the hopes of better meds being developed in the future. But my older child was terrified of him. I gave her and her younger sister a better life through divorce. No one --especially not anonymous DCUMers-- can ever make me feel guilty for that.[/quote]
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