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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a nanny from the nanny forum ( yes I look at this forum) and I figured I would get some good opinions. I am a 25 year old attractive female. I've had three boyfriends but have been single for the past year and some months. Between FT work and grad school, my social life suffered a bit. Now it's the summer and I've been dating ( not sleeping) around. I know there is a huge double standard regarding dating multiple men. I'm really not sure if I am interested in a relationship at this point. I was talking to a few friends ( male & female) and they were saying how I'm going to be labeled a slut, etc. I have an older friend ( male) who thinks I should go out and dare around. He said I should experience things while I'm young. Part of me feels guilty and the other part is wanting to go out and experience as much as possible. Tell me your thoughts and opinions on dating multiple men casually and sex with one or maybe more. I don't have much sexual experience and really want to explore that. What is your take on this? I'm looking for answers mostly from mature adults.[/quote]

Male here, my honest advice:

You should date multiple men and sleep with them if you are comfortable doing so.  It's not about racking up partners but discovering what you like and don't like so you can make a good choice if you want to get married one day.  Nothing wrong with dating two men at the same time as long as you aren't lying to either.

Your next 2-5 years are your prime years to "discover" yourself.  Don't waste time in dead end relationships, i.e. don't casually date someone you don't really love for years just because it's comfortable or you are scared of being single.  If you are interested in marriage and family, keep your radar open for a good one if he should come along.  The dating market is heavily in your favor now but it won't be in 7-10 years.[/quote]

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