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[quote=Anonymous] Tell you husband plenty of spouses have divorced over problems with their ILs, and that you will too if he doesn't back you up. Then hatch a plan. 1. Limit contact. 2. No more overnight visits in your home. 3. No more freebies and the high life when she is with you. 4. If she visits, do not lift a finger for her. It's up to her to find entertainment. If you cook your own meal or those of your children, make extra for her, but don't cook something just for her. If you're going out and she's not, she can manage meals on her own. 5. And above all, don't mind being the fall guy! Even if your spouse is behind you 100%, you will always be resented more. never mind. If she gets verbally abusive, tell her she is not welcome in your house. You really have the upper hand if DH can't get on board. If she cuts off all contact because you have decided to set boundaries, even better. [/quote]
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