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[quote=Anonymous]You have told MIL that there is very little chance of your family being there for Thanksgiving. It's said. Don't discuss it with ILs any more. If, by slim chance, circumstances change - baby comes early but needs no special care - and for whatever reason at the last minute traveling seems like an ok idea - you can always change your mind. OF COURSE to them, no do offer this as a possibility for discussion. You have to learn to state things once, and then not allow them to control the conversation. It really doesn't matter what "the issue" is, you have to establish the precedent that these decisions are yours (your family's) and you don't accept arm twisting.[/quote]
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